Hello everyone, I am 48 years of age I had my first and only child in 2029. I was with my son's mother for five years. When we met she was 24 and I was 44. And yes I know that was a huge mistake. I was at a very low point in my life. I was at that time suffering with addiction issues. And drinking problems. I was able to kick the addiction issues and it's been years now since I had a problem with that. The drinking took a little longer to stop though but I have been sober now for nearly 6 months I worked in the IT industry for over 20 years and posses two IT certifications and the work experience to back up those certifications. It took me a long time to get back on my feet my son's mother had issues of her own. She had a son by her ex husband when we met. While we were together and after our son was born. I found out that she had been cheating on me with another man and she came over one day and you could see she was pregnant by this man. She could not hide it any longer. When I first met her. She tried to get me to adopt her ex husband's son and she did nothing but spew hate about him. I refused to do that because I would never try to take another man's child from them. That is sick and evil. Now that me and her are broken up and sheis living with this new guy. She is sending me emails saying this guy is adopting my son now and that my son calls him daddy and that she wants me out of my son's life forever. She even made the comment that she would go so far as to lay me off to get me to leave. Which I would not take all the money in the world for my son and I wouldn't have to think about that for a second emails say things like she wishes I were dead and the sooner I die the better off she will be. She use to try and take epos out on her ex all the time andi am just now getting back on my feet it will be a full two months before I have a car and a place of my own. My son motivates me to never mess up again. When he was born my entire outlook on life changed . All I want to do now is get back to my career field and make sure he is raised properly and has the best childhood possible . This woman was also very abusive emotionally and physically.. she has been on push meds most all of her life and she is now saying she is getting her number changed and I will never see my son again. And that I need to just go some where and die. When it gets to a court I do not even know her address or where she works to get papers served. Her family is very wealthy and I am dirt poor . At 48 my record is pretty much clean. I have an $80 bounced check from 2913 and a misdemeanor drug possession charge from 2016 and a misdemeanor wanting endangerment from last year. The wanting endangerment. Was easily explained and if that were normal circumstances I could have got those charges beaten. I ha e never had any viilent iffenses as a matter of fact I've never even been in a bar fight and have never been a trouble maker. She likes to paint a picture of me as the worst person who ever walked the earth and I know this is just hersay but she is the one who always instigated problem's but with that said she does love her children and I don't see her as a danger to them I just don't understand how and why she can be this vile and never want me to see my son again. But cinsiderig she did this to her ex before me I guess that's in her make up. I'm sorry for the. Long post but any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you. .